Parent - Teacher Conference Day is fast approaching. While the conference meeting is intended as an opportunity to discuss student growth and plan for teamed home-school support as the year progresses, many families experience mixed emotions regarding this event.   

Five Important Things 

to remember about how to make the conference appointment valuable for all involved:

1. Make a list. Have you had a question about something but not asked yet? Are there things you want to be sure the teacher knows? Making a list prior to the meeting will ensure that all important topics are covered and everyone feels that his/her voice was heard in the meeting.
2. Bring the student. Who better to comment on the needs and abilities of the student than the student? Having the student present also allows the parent(s) and teacher to emphasize the teamed support adults need to demonstrate for the student's success.
3. Listen...really listen. Since you have a list of the items you want to be sure to cover, really focus on what the teacher has to say about your student's progress so that you can work together to best support your child's success in the classroom. Taking the time to really hear what the teacher has to say will afford you the opportunity to work together effectively for the good of your student.
4. Take notes. Because a lot will be shared in a short amount of time, it's a good idea to take notes. The teacher or student may share information that needs additional thought or follow-up action. Be sure to jot down all you need to know so that you can effectively support your student after the conference meeting.
5. Debrief. Talk with your student about the meeting. Share what made you proud, any concerns you have, and how you plan to work with the teacher to support him/her as the school year progresses. Discuss how he/she felt during the meeting and how he/she plans to proceed in the class.